Vayishlach
A case where flattery is muttar! PDF Print E-mail
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It is forbidden to flatter; one is not allowed to purposefully exaggerate in the hope of flattering someone else. Now is there any circumstance whereby it is ok to flatter a wicked person? The Chofetz Chaim proves from our sedra that there is such a permitted circumstance. When Yaakov meets Eisav, he begs Eisav to accept his gifts, for ‘for I have seen your face (as) like the face of G-D’ (33:10). Similarly, Yaakov calls himself Eisav’s servant (32:21). This was all flattery, but the Midrash says that Yaakov was justified for doing so because it was in order to preserve peace; so Eisav would not kill Yaakov. Similarly, the Chofetz Chaim reports that Rav Chaim of Brisk would approach the general of the army in the city of Minsk each day during World War One for the same reason.
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Kiruv begins at home! PDF Print E-mail
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Written by d fine   
As the start of our sedra attests to, Yaakov sent messengers to Eisav ahead of the grand reunion; to placate Eisav in the hope that Eisav would not fight. Rashi (32:4) tells us that these messengers were actually angels - which begs the question: why did Yaakov not send human messengers? One answer is that Yaakov was trying to be mekarev his twin brother. Yaakov hoped that seeing the spiritual faces of these angels would make Eisav change his ways and repent. Indeed, this is not the first time Yaakov tries to get his brother to mend his ways. One reason why Yaakov was constantly kicking out in the womb whenever Rivkah passed a Shul/Beis Midrash was not for himself (Yaakov was learning Torah with an angel in the womb), but for Eisav - for Eisav to be born in such a place of kedusha and to be influenced by it. Similarly, as Rav Chaim Halpern points out, this was why Yaakov initially planned for Eisav to marry Leah - again, in the hope that Leah would cause Eisav to repent.
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Battling the Angel PDF Print E-mail
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Written by Daniel Sandground   

Battling the Angel and our own Yatsa Horra What follows Yaakov’s preparation is the need to fight, but not in the way he expected. One of the most famous episodes in the Torah unfolds with his struggle with the angel and there are valuable lessons to be learnt from this episode which is brimming with coded messages and advice.

“Yaakov was left alone and a man wrestled with him until the break of dawn” [32:25].

Now who was this ‘man’? As we all know he was an angel but when we think of angels we think of winged, white, friendly things complete with halos as depicted in the movies, this angel was far from this however.


Commentators have identified him as the guardian angel of Esav and just as Esav epitomizes evil, so to his angel is the prime spiritual force of evil- Satan himself. As it is written in Gemara Bava Basra (16a); “satan descends and seduces man to sin, then he ascends to incite G-d by prosecuting man for his sinfulness, and then he receives permission to take man’s life… Satan, the Evil Inclination (Yatsa Horra), and the Angel of Death are one and the same”.

The first observation which should be made is that Yaakov gets attacked when he is on his own, this a fundamental lesson of avoiding the Yatsa Horra in life, it usually gets you when your on your own! It’s always going to be when no one else is in the house that you raid the fridge or decide that watching a five hour marathon of football isn’t so bad! But this is also a key lesson in life, you shouldn’t just follow your own path, it is fundamental in Judaism to be part of a community, have a wife/husband, daven in minyons as you are far more likely to do mitzvahs and avoid the temptation of the Yatsa Horra when you have that support.

“When he perceived that he could not overcome him, he struck the socket of his hip; so Jacob’s hip-socket was dislocated as he wrestled with him” [32:26].

Just when Yaakov is winning the battle, bang, the angel knocks him in the hip! The only way for us to fight the evil inclination is through Torah study, and the only way we can be stopped from doing this is when our support is struck. By hitting Yaakov in the hip the angel is de-stabilizing Yaakov, as it is difficult to stand on a dislocated hip. This is all too apparent today with vast numbers returning to torah learning in yeshivas and cholels across the world the only way the Yatsa Horra can fight against this is by knocking out our support in the form of a world recession, which has unfortunately left them debt ridden and in dire need of funding.

BUT Yaakov struggles on and this is a lesson that how ever bad the conditions are, you need to carry on and shteig hard! A famous midrash says that the dust being kicked up from Yaakov’s wrestling with the angel rose so high that it reached the throne of Hashem. What is this coming to tell us? Hashem recognizes our struggles and they reach him, the outcome might not always be successful but it is the effort that Hashem wants to see. Someone might spend days trying to figure out a certain section of the gemara and come up with nothing but we still need to struggle on because Hashem recognizes your battles and this is what means the most to him. Eventually you will win the battle but the more effort the better.

On that note I wish you success in all your struggles and battles and I hope that Hashem recognizes them and merits you accordingly. Have a fantastic Shabbat and I hope you have enjoyed my first (written) Dvar Torah, feedback appreciated!! Daniel Sandground, (student at Ohr Somayach Yeshiva, Jerusalem)

Did you know… ישראל the new name granted to Yaakov in this weeks sedra includes the names of all our patriarchs and matriarchs!

י… Yitzhak and Yaakov

ש… Sarah

ר… Rachel and Rivkah

א… Avraham

ל… Leah

 
Battles of Vayishlach PDF Print E-mail
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Written by Daniel Sandground   
Vayishlach Part 1- Preparations for Battle

This weeks sedra picks up where we left off last week with Yaakov having finally broken free of the conniving Lavan, he continues his journey home with his wives Rachel and Leah, children, servants and masses of wealth which he accumulated with Hashem’s blessing during his time away. Unfortunately for Yaakov this isn’t just a standard walk in the park, it is more like a jungle out there (actual region was ‘Seir’, a mountainous region from the Dead Sea southward towards the Gulf of Aqaba!). Having settled things with Lavan, who pursued him he now has his evil brother Esav and his band of 400 men waiting for him along the route home.

If we backtrack two

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Mission Impossible!!! PDF Print E-mail
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Written by Rafi Jager   
Mission #1: Convince every citizen in your town to spend one hour a week volunteering for a worthwhile cause. "Challenging" is the first word that comes to your mind.

Mission #2: Convince every citizen in your town to donate $1,000 to a particular charity. A major hurdle, you think to yourself.

Mission #3: Convince every male in your town to undergo an unnecessary surgery without anesthesia. Mission impossible, of course, you muse.

Shechem, the son of Chamor, is depicted in this week's Torah portion as managing to convince an entire city to be circumcised in one day. Where did he

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